..... And that's when you learn to let Go..

Sometimes situation doesn't turned out the way you want, but just be glad you went through it and it's a lesson you'll take to the next one. You shouldn't always stress something that you know in your heart, you gave 110% to. After my experience with relationships, breakups and just seeing couples on the train in love, you wonder sometimes. People always say, " I want what they have" Maybe, it's not time for you to find that one person yet. Date around and get to know someone. You never know what you get out of it by doing the most simplest thing, which is being yourself.

When things go wrong, don't blame yourself for the mishap. If you know you didn't do anything wrong, stop beating yourself and telling yourself you did something. Sometimes, its always the other person and you don't need to stress it. You have your own life to worry about and that's the most important thing if you're still young. Priorities, responsibilities and your dreams comes first. Try to block the other things that matters less and deal with it when you have time. Remember, if you try to balance a lot at the same time, you bound to mess up and instead of going one step forward, you're taking one step back. Give your self time to understand what's best for you now and even though you want something to happen, the timing isn't always right. Let time take it's course and it always plays out for the better.

"When your feeling ain't the same and your body don't want to, But you know gotta let it go cuz the party ain't jumpin' like it used to Even though this might bruise you,Let it burn.." There's a little Usher for you HAHA. But understand when thing's aren't right and you feel like its so much that you can handle, let it go. They say that "it's always tough to say goodbye to something, when in your heart you know that it's worth the time and the effort." Let yourself be free and the most important of all, learn to be selfish when you know something is right. Trust your heart and judgements and know that it won't do you wrong. When you give everything in something and you try everything to make the situation better, find another way to do it. If situations still doesn't work out and you starting to stress, that's when you learn to let go. You might be down and wish that things were better, but just let it be. It's not your fault.

Everything in life is worth a try. Even if it's situation like hard work in life or even love, you need to dedicate time for it to work out the way you want. Take baby steps and then keep going. It's like climbing a ladder, you can't reach the top by skipping steps because everything takes time for it to work. Be your own person and don't let failure come in a way of you being the person you want to be.

"If You love something. let it go and if comes back to you, you know it's Yours" It's pretty accurate. If a person you love so much and you know in your heart that it's not time for you and that person to be together, let that person go. Don't be selfish and be in a relationship, when you know it's unfair to both. It might make you go insane and the beginning, but just know it's for the best. Sometimes the hardest part in life isn't letting the person free, but having the courage to do so. Just know, you did the right thing and things will work out for the better.

Everything you do in life itself is about taking a risk. You might not like the outcome of it, but at least you took a risk in something you truly believed in. Don't ever hesitate on something when you trust your heart in. Give it a time to marinate.
The best part of all, you need to be happy with your decisions. Don't second guess yourself because then you'll be doubting yourself. Believe in your philosophy and things will eventually work out.